Posted 28 March 2012 - 04:30 AM
In all seriousness, my friend and I are going if BB hits Atlanta, and you are invited to join us. Farrah should come too.
I'm so in. Thanks Plummy!
>“After T.O.P works out he asks me to touch his body.
I always knew they were gay for each other.
Posted 28 March 2012 - 05:34 AM
Posted 28 March 2012 - 02:19 PM
I'm really fascinated by the concept of the romantic friendship and why it became perceived as unusual. As someone who has always been very snuggly (for lack of a better word) with her friends, I find the reactions some people here have to that a bit odd. I was out with a friend of mine doing wedding stuff (I'm her maid of honor) and her mom was accompanying us, and she seemed to be a bit uncomfortable with our friend PDA, to the point where she just asked us to stop. It's not as if she had any concerns that her daughter was gay; she was trying on dresses for her wedding to a lovely man. But it still seemed to weird her out, and I felt bad about it despite not generally feeling there was anything wrong with it.
I also had a conversation yesterday about how I can't relate to girls that are super into fantasizing about men sleeping together. I don't totally understand the male obsession with lesbians, either. If I am a straight woman and really that hot for a guy, wouldn't I be more excited about the idea of him making out with me than the idea that he's not into ladybits? I kind of wonder if half of it is that it's perceived as having an element of danger or forbiddenness. I mean I have been told that it's like, hey, two hot guys in one frame being sexy are better than one, and on a basic level I can see that. However, there seems to be a dynamic of purposefully excluding yourself from the scenario and making it purely voyeuristic.
I may also be entirely wrong. I think about human behavior a little too much.
Posted 28 March 2012 - 03:16 PM
I forgot about the skinship thing. I know there's articles on the yaoi popularity with women but my google-fu is weak today because I can't find the ones I read.
Posted 03 June 2012 - 03:10 PM
Posted 21 September 2012 - 07:56 AM
Meh. I'm gonna go listen to Rania.
Posted 22 September 2012 - 12:03 AM